Unanswered Prayer, February 25
“Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ For when I am weak, then I am strong” (2 Corinthians 12:8-9a, 10b NIV).
Have you ever felt weakness in your body and been tempted to think in some negative way about, well, almost everything else as well? Maybe at times like these you find yourself praying less because prayer doesn’t seem to be working. Maybe in the beginning of your cancer journey, you prayed for the biopsy to come back “negative—no cancer” and that’s not what happened. When we’re sick it’s so easy to think in a negative way about God’s power to answer prayer.
Pray for What You Need, February 24
“Give us this day our daily bread” (Matthew 6:11 NIV).
The demands of cancer will likely surpass anything you have ever experienced. Dealing with the disease may take everything you have—physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially, and relationally. Even that may not be enough. Being able to ask God for what you need will be essential.
No Fear, February 23
“I sought the LORD, and He heard me, and delivered me from all my fears” (Psalm 34:4 NKJV).
Does anyone remember the slogan “No Fear” that was on T-shirts a few years ago? I used to think the people wearing the shirts were fooling themselves. Everyone has fears. Sometimes the fears are more prevalent and intense.
Cancer can heighten our feelings of fear. There are so many unknowns surrounding a cancer diagnosis.
When Cancer Feels Lonely (Part Two), February 22
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17 NIV).
Life—especially life with cancer—is a team sport, and no one wins alone. But what are we meant to do when we feel alone and unseen in our cancer journey? No matter how helpful and involved our family or support network is, it's still possible to feel alone and scared—because quite honestly, no one's in our heads but us, and no one can sit in the chemo chair or undergo surgery but us. The good news is that there is no need for us to feel alone in our cancer journey.
When Cancer Feels Lonely (Part One), February 21
“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me” (Psalm 23:4a ESV).
Whether we’re physically alone or surrounded by people whose love is loud and tangible, cancer can be a lonely place. No matter how much our friends and family love us and are with us, they can never truly understand what it feels like to be where we are. If you’re feeling alone, even wondering where God is and if He might just have forgotten about you or abandoned you for some reason, I get it.
Say What You Need to Say, February 20
“I will remain silent and will not grumble or speak out of my disappointment. But the longer I’m silent, the more my pain grows worse!” (Psalm 39:2b TPT)
Like many people, there may be things you need to say, but have not. I love you. I’m proud of you. I forgive you. I’m sorry I hurt you. I need your help. You may find it hard to say the word—cancer—and to tell others you have been diagnosed. Holding all of this in can cause deep pain to yourself and others.
Empowered by God, February 19
“I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13 BSB).
My husband and I got married soon after we graduated from college. We had big aspirations for our lives. We both wanted to be university professors. We both wanted four children. We both wanted to run a marathon. We both felt that with a little bit of hard work and lots of luck, we could make these dreams a reality.
Does Anyone Really Want to Hear It? February 18
“I pour out before him my complaint; before him I tell my trouble” (Psalm 142:2 NIV).
I recently spent time at the beach with our two three-year-old grandchildren. It may not be advisable, but I taught them how to chase seagulls. What a wonderful sight to see a flock take flight, circle around and land only a few yards away. The smiles on the grandchildren’s faces were priceless.
Our Calling, February 17
“Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms” (1 Peter 4:10 NIV).
Jesus calls His people to love Him with heart, mind, soul, and strength. We are to love one another and to share God’s love by serving others. Each of us is to be the hands, feet, and voice of Jesus to others, which can be seen in our verse today: “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others.”
Compassion to Action, February 16
”Then Jesus, moved with compassion, stretched out His hand and touched him, and said to him, ‘I am willing; be cleansed.’ As soon as He had spoken, immediately the leprosy left him, and he was cleansed” (Mark 1:41-42 NKJV).
In today’s scripture we see that Jesus had compassion on this man suffering from leprosy and healed him. He did it with His touch and with His Word. No doubt this was the first loving touch this leper had felt in a long time.
Dancing with Disease, February 15
“You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy” (Psalm 30:11 NIV).
After cancer shows up, the last thing you may feel like doing is dancing. It can feel as if you will never get back on your feet again, let alone dance. As impossible as it may sound, God can help you get your groove back.
Romantic Mindfulness, February 14
“How right they are to adore you!” (Song of Solomon 1:4 NIV)
As a cancer caregiver, I could not help noticing that my wife’s cancer diagnosis and treatment took a toll on her own body image. Her self-reflection in the mirror revealed to her that she had cancer. She somehow saw “damaged goods.” Yet, when I looked at her, I saw the same woman that I found attractive and fell in love with many years ago. Same eyes, same nose, same mouth and cheeks and forehead. Same “Tippin chin,” as it’s called per her mother’s maiden name.
Burden Sharing, February 13
“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:2 NIV).
Getting Through the In Betweens- Repentance and Restoration, February 12
“I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you’” (Luke 15:18 NIV).
Up to now in this five-day devotional series we’ve been focusing on the challenges Jesus and His followers experienced while on their journey to Jerusalem, in between His ministry in Galilee and His death, resurrection, and heavenly ascension. Jesus has led them to understand that a difficult journey is one in which you must keep going. Don’t stop moving forward, even if the future feels uncertain in so many ways. Luke’s Gospel notes at every turn how God prepares us for the future while at the same time traveling alongside us with each step of our own “in betweens.”
Getting Through the In Betweens- Living with Purpose, February 11
“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and he will give you everything you need” (Luke 12:31 NLT).
A counseling client of mine struggled with depressive illness for quite some time before finally seeking help. As a 51-year-old attorney, he reached a point where he could see little to live for. At one point his family doctor recommended that, due to his age and family history, he should get an initial colonoscopy. At his next session with me two weeks later he announced the shocking news: tests came back positive for Stage IV cancer. A cancer that started in his colon had already spread to his lymph nodes and liver. Initially the diagnosis left him feeling numb, but in his next visit with me he made an interesting comment. “This will sound strange,” he said, “but this cancer is actually turning out to be something of a blessing. Where before I had no sense of my future, now I’m feeling this desire to live and finally figure out what my real priorities in life are all about.”
Getting Through the In Betweens- Grace to Share, February 10
“But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him” (Luke 10:33 NIV).
Before the cross and the empty tomb for Jesus and His disciples, there was Samaria. The place Jews simply didn’t go through en route to Jerusalem—ever. Jesus led His followers through parts of Samaria, which may fit Jesus’ description of the disciples being “lambs among wolves” (Luke 10:3 NIV). Yet Jesus still gave them these instructions: “When you enter a house, first say, ‘Peace to this house’” (Luke 10:5 NIV). Jesus expected the disciples to be gracious, not abrasive. While possibly still in that region, Jesus got into a conversation with a Jewish lawyer who was following Him. The lawyer asked Jesus which neighbors he was commanded to love in order to inherit eternal life.
Getting Through the In Betweens- Keep Going!, February 9
“[Jesus] sent messengers on ahead, who went into a Samaritan village to get things ready for him; but the people there did not welcome him, because he was heading for Jerusalem” (Luke 9:52-53 NIV).
Galilean Jews during the time of Jesus were accustomed to traveling to Jerusalem for feasts of worship three times each year. Everyone knew the road. It was the long way around. Go east to the Jordan River, then south, then turn back west and go up the mountains to Jerusalem. Why? Because going straight south to Jerusalem meant going through Samaria, where Jews were not welcomed—any more than Samaritans would be welcomed in Jerusalem.
Yet Jesus, on His journey to Jerusalem, chose not to go around but through Samaria.
Getting Through the In Betweens-Forward with Resolution, February 8
“As the time approached for him to be taken up to heaven, Jesus resolutely set out for Jerusalem” (Luke 9:51 NIV).
Life is a series of what we may view as being “in-between times.” Each new day is another “in-between” day. So, what are you in between today?
The Gospel of Luke views the life of Jesus between His earthly conception and birth and His ascending into heaven (ascension). In the twenty-four chapters between these two events, we find that the last fourteen chapters deal with what is called His “journey to Jerusalem.” Luke introduces this time in Jesus’ life with the words of our verse for today: “As the time approached for him to be taken up to heaven, Jesus resolutely set out for Jerusalem.” Some Bible scholars refer to this as a “bridge” verse between Jesus’ ministry in Galilee and His heavenly ascension. Across that bridge lay, for Jesus, a prolonged series of “in betweens” and “getting throughs.” In this five-day devotional series which starts today, we will look at lessons we can learn from Jesus as he lived His “in betweens.”
Planning for a Baby, February 7
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” (Matthew 22:37 NIV).
The big question when you’re expecting a baby is, “How are you going to fit a baby into your life?” You change your living space by getting rid of your stuff to make room for baby stuff. Your budget shows that you are spending less on vacations and more on baby stuff. And then there’s time. Somehow you will have to fit time with the baby into your already busy schedule.
The Gift of a Handicap, February 6
“I was given the gift of a handicap” (2 Corinthians 12:7 MSG).
We could surely call cancer lots of things: horrible, terrible, hard, bad, a nightmare. We could come up with other words. One thing we probably would not think to call cancer is a gift.
An unidentified mystery illness afflicted the Apostle Paul, the missionary giant of the New Testament. He referred to it as a “thorn in his side” (see 2 Corinthians 12:7). Whether heart disease, kidney stones, appendicitis, neurological distress, or perhaps cancer, the “thorn” caused Paul acute pain.
Paul pleaded repeatedly for God to remove the thorn from his side, but God refused. He had superabundantly gifted Paul with divine experiences and visions. Paul came to understand the thorn to be God’s way of keeping him humble, always dependent on God. Forced to his knees, Paul prayed more than ever.