Does Anyone Really Want to Hear It? February 18

Does Anyone Really Want to Hear It? February 18

“I pour out before him my complaint; before him I tell my trouble” (Psalm 142:2 NIV).

I recently spent time at the beach with our two three-year-old grandchildren. It may not be advisable, but I taught them how to chase seagulls. What a wonderful sight to see a flock take flight, circle around and land only a few yards away. The smiles on the grandchildren’s faces were priceless.

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Our Calling, February 17

Our Calling, February 17

“Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms” (1 Peter 4:10 NIV).

Jesus calls His people to love Him with heart, mind, soul, and strength. We are to love one another and to share God’s love by serving others. Each of us is to be the hands, feet, and voice of Jesus to others, which can be seen in our verse today: “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others.”

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Compassion to Action, February 16

Compassion to Action, February 16

”Then Jesus, moved with compassion, stretched out His hand and touched him, and said to him, ‘I am willing; be cleansed.’ As soon as He had spoken, immediately the leprosy left him, and he was cleansed” (Mark 1:41-42 NKJV).

In today’s scripture we see that Jesus had compassion on this man suffering from leprosy and healed him. He did it with His touch and with His Word. No doubt this was the first loving touch this leper had felt in a long time.

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Dancing with Disease, February 15

Dancing with Disease, February 15

“You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy” (Psalm 30:11 NIV).

After cancer shows up, the last thing you may feel like doing is dancing. It can feel as if you will never get back on your feet again, let alone dance. As impossible as it may sound, God can help you get your groove back.

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Romantic Mindfulness, February 14

Romantic Mindfulness, February 14

“How right they are to adore you!” (Song of Solomon 1:4 NIV)

As a cancer caregiver, I could not help noticing that my wife’s cancer diagnosis and treatment took a toll on her own body image. Her self-reflection in the mirror revealed to her that she had cancer. She somehow saw “damaged goods.” Yet, when I looked at her, I saw the same woman that I found attractive and fell in love with many years ago. Same eyes, same nose, same mouth and cheeks and forehead. Same “Tippin chin,” as it’s called per her mother’s maiden name.

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Getting Through the In Betweens- Repentance and Restoration, February 12

Getting Through the In Betweens- Repentance and Restoration, February 12

“I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you’” (Luke 15:18 NIV).

Up to now in this five-day devotional series we’ve been focusing on the challenges Jesus and His followers experienced while on their journey to Jerusalem, in between His ministry in Galilee and His death, resurrection, and heavenly ascension. Jesus has led them to understand that a difficult journey is one in which you must keep going. Don’t stop moving forward, even if the future feels uncertain in so many ways. Luke’s Gospel notes at every turn how God prepares us for the future while at the same time traveling alongside us with each step of our own “in betweens.”

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Getting Through the In Betweens- Living with Purpose, February 11

Getting Through the In Betweens- Living with Purpose, February 11

“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and he will give you everything you need” (Luke 12:31 NLT).

A counseling client of mine struggled with depressive illness for quite some time before finally seeking help. As a 51-year-old attorney, he reached a point where he could see little to live for. At one point his family doctor recommended that, due to his age and family history, he should get an initial colonoscopy. At his next session with me two weeks later he announced the shocking news: tests came back positive for Stage IV cancer. A cancer that started in his colon had already spread to his lymph nodes and liver. Initially the diagnosis left him feeling numb, but in his next visit with me he made an interesting comment. “This will sound strange,” he said, “but this cancer is actually turning out to be something of a blessing. Where before I had no sense of my future, now I’m feeling this desire to live and finally figure out what my real priorities in life are all about.”

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Getting Through the In Betweens- Grace to Share, February 10

Getting Through the In Betweens- Grace to Share, February 10

“But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him” (Luke 10:33 NIV).

Before the cross and the empty tomb for Jesus and His disciples, there was Samaria. The place Jews simply didn’t go through en route to Jerusalem—ever. Jesus led His followers through parts of Samaria, which may fit Jesus’ description of the disciples being “lambs among wolves” (Luke 10:3 NIV). Yet Jesus still gave them these instructions: “When you enter a house, first say, ‘Peace to this house’” (Luke 10:5 NIV). Jesus expected the disciples to be gracious, not abrasive. While possibly still in that region, Jesus got into a conversation with a Jewish lawyer who was following Him. The lawyer asked Jesus which neighbors he was commanded to love in order to inherit eternal life.

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Getting Through the In Betweens-     Keep Going!, February 9

Getting Through the In Betweens- Keep Going!, February 9

“[Jesus] sent messengers on ahead, who went into a Samaritan village to get things ready for him; but the people there did not welcome him, because he was heading for Jerusalem” (Luke 9:52-53 NIV).

Galilean Jews during the time of Jesus were accustomed to traveling to Jerusalem for feasts of worship three times each year. Everyone knew the road. It was the long way around. Go east to the Jordan River, then south, then turn back west and go up the mountains to Jerusalem. Why? Because going straight south to Jerusalem meant going through Samaria, where Jews were not welcomed—any more than Samaritans would be welcomed in Jerusalem.

Yet Jesus, on His journey to Jerusalem, chose not to go around but through Samaria.

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Getting Through the In Betweens-Forward with Resolution, February 8

Getting Through the In Betweens-Forward with Resolution, February 8

“As the time approached for him to be taken up to heaven, Jesus resolutely set out for Jerusalem” (Luke 9:51 NIV).

Life is a series of what we may view as being “in-between times.” Each new day is another “in-between” day. So, what are you in between today?

The Gospel of Luke views the life of Jesus between His earthly conception and birth and His ascending into heaven (ascension). In the twenty-four chapters between these two events, we find that the last fourteen chapters deal with what is called His “journey to Jerusalem.” Luke introduces this time in Jesus’ life with the words of our verse for today: “As the time approached for him to be taken up to heaven, Jesus resolutely set out for Jerusalem.” Some Bible scholars refer to this as a “bridge” verse between Jesus’ ministry in Galilee and His heavenly ascension. Across that bridge lay, for Jesus, a prolonged series of “in betweens” and “getting throughs.” In this five-day devotional series which starts today, we will look at lessons we can learn from Jesus as he lived His “in betweens.”

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Planning for a Baby, February 7

Planning for a Baby, February 7

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” (Matthew 22:37 NIV).

The big question when you’re expecting a baby is, “How are you going to fit a baby into your life?” You change your living space by getting rid of your stuff to make room for baby stuff. Your budget shows that you are spending less on vacations and more on baby stuff. And then there’s time. Somehow you will have to fit time with the baby into your already busy schedule.

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The Gift of a Handicap, February 6

The Gift of a Handicap, February 6

“I was given the gift of a handicap” (2 Corinthians 12:7 MSG).

We could surely call cancer lots of things: horrible, terrible, hard, bad, a nightmare. We could come up with other words. One thing we probably would not think to call cancer is a gift.

An unidentified mystery illness afflicted the Apostle Paul, the missionary giant of the New Testament. He referred to it as a “thorn in his side” (see 2 Corinthians 12:7). Whether heart disease, kidney stones, appendicitis, neurological distress, or perhaps cancer, the “thorn” caused Paul acute pain.

Paul pleaded repeatedly for God to remove the thorn from his side, but God refused. He had superabundantly gifted Paul with divine experiences and visions. Paul came to understand the thorn to be God’s way of keeping him humble, always dependent on God. Forced to his knees, Paul prayed more than ever.

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And God KNEW, February 5

And God KNEW, February 5

“God saw the people of Israel—and God knew” (Exodus 2:25 ESV).

The motion picture titled “The Ten Commandments” depicted the trials and tribulations of the children of Israel led by Moses. Moses was stirred up by the Spirit of God to lead a people out of slavery to the land of milk and honey—prosperity. The movie is extensive in length but does a great job of painting a picture of the apparently insurmountable odds of freeing what some estimate to be over one million people from the horrors of slavery. Hopeless proposition? The Israelites’ slavery had lasted for generations upon generations. These one million people knew nothing but slavery.

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Unspoken Fear, February 4

Unspoken Fear, February 4

“Do not fear, for I am with you” (Isaiah 41:10 NIV).

I recently read a blog post written by the father of a baby who had undergone treatment for infant leukemia. As a mother myself, I cannot imagine the fear one might have as they watch their child battle cancer. A million times over, I would rather be the one with cancer. Chemotherapy, transfusions, and surgery are scary words. They are even more scary when you consider them for your baby.

In his blog post, he said that his daughter would soon be finished with her treatment. This is a milestone that many people celebrate. A simple search on social media would bring up literally thousands of pictures of happy faces holding up handmade signs. Yet, behind those smiles is an anxiety that many people don’t often discuss. When treatment ends and the family is supposed to return to “normal life,” there is an unspoken fear that grips them.

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My Lifeline, January 1

My Lifeline, January 1

At midnight on December 31, with bright eyes and big smiles, my husband, James, and I rang in the New Year full of hope and great anticipation for 2019. I was looking forward to continuing to lead the high school girls’ Bible study at our church. In addition, I was studying to obtain my roofing license, so I could work with my father and my brother in the business that had been in our family for over a hundred years. James and I booked a trip for July while our youngest daughter, Hannah, would be on a trip with her high school. Our oldest daughter, Grace, was finishing up her sophomore year at UNC and taking a trip for which she had worked hard and saved. James continued to love his work in dentistry. We were healthy (or at least thought we were). We were grateful for our many blessings. What thoughts and emotions do you have at the start of a new year?

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