And God KNEW, February 5

And God KNEW, February 5

“God saw the people of Israel—and God knew” (Exodus 2:25 ESV).

The motion picture titled “The Ten Commandments” depicted the trials and tribulations of the children of Israel led by Moses. Moses was stirred up by the Spirit of God to lead a people out of slavery to the land of milk and honey—prosperity. The movie is extensive in length but does a great job of painting a picture of the apparently insurmountable odds of freeing what some estimate to be over one million people from the horrors of slavery. Hopeless proposition? The Israelites’ slavery had lasted for generations upon generations. These one million people knew nothing but slavery.

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Unspoken Fear, February 4

Unspoken Fear, February 4

“Do not fear, for I am with you” (Isaiah 41:10 NIV).

I recently read a blog post written by the father of a baby who had undergone treatment for infant leukemia. As a mother myself, I cannot imagine the fear one might have as they watch their child battle cancer. A million times over, I would rather be the one with cancer. Chemotherapy, transfusions, and surgery are scary words. They are even more scary when you consider them for your baby.

In his blog post, he said that his daughter would soon be finished with her treatment. This is a milestone that many people celebrate. A simple search on social media would bring up literally thousands of pictures of happy faces holding up handmade signs. Yet, behind those smiles is an anxiety that many people don’t often discuss. When treatment ends and the family is supposed to return to “normal life,” there is an unspoken fear that grips them.

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We Will Enjoy His Presence Forever, February 3

We Will Enjoy His Presence Forever, February 3

“And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God” (Revelation 21:3 NIV).

What if you could dwell with God? He could be your roommate. You could let Him have the master suite with the walk-in closet and the sunken tub and you take the guest room down the hall. You could make Sunday breakfasts together as you chat about everything and nothing. He’d probably offer you some insight into things you’d never considered. You’d share your favorite music and He’d share His favorite book. In the evenings you’d catch up about how your days went and share any plans for tomorrow. Dwelling with God sounds great.

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Simple Tasks, February 2

Simple Tasks, February 2

“‘What do you think? There was a man who had two sons. He went to the first and said, “Son, go and work today in the vineyard.” “I will not,” he answered, but later he changed his mind and went. Then the father went to the other son and said the same thing. He answered, “I will, sir,” but he did not go. Which of the two did what his father wanted?’ ‘The first,’ they answered. Jesus said to them, ‘Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you’” (Matthew 21:28-31 NIV).

“I WILL NOT GO TODAY!” I yelled, as my head swam and my gut was churning. “WELL, YOU ARE A TERRIBLE FRIEND FOR NOT GOING!” I yelled back at myself.

Thankfully, no one was hearing this screaming match—because it was all inside my head. But anyone could see that I was agitated. I had these fights with myself frequently, because my friend’s stage four colon cancer demanded frequent chemo days. I wanted to be there to support him, but something about his chemo days reminded me too much of my own chemo days. I struggled just to show up to support him.

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You Haven’t Seen Nothing Yet, February 1

You Haven’t Seen Nothing Yet, February 1

“I will become even more undignified than this, and I will be humiliated in my own eyes. But by these slave girls you spoke of, I will be held in honor” (2 Samuel 6: 22 NIV).

I love this account of David dancing before the Lord! The ark of the Lord has returned to Jerusalem. It is time to celebrate what God has done. But some believe David goes too far in his expression of thanksgiving. Some are shocked and ashamed of his leaping, twirling, and dancing, wearing only a linen garment. Michal, his wife, tries to shame him for his unabashed expression of praise. In so many words, she says, “I hope you are proud of yourself acting like a common fool in front of slave girls!” David’s reply is priceless. He retorts, “I will become even more undignified than this” (2 Samuel 6:22a). In effect, David says, “If you think my dancing was shameful, you haven’t seen nothing yet! I will continue to enthusiastically praise God for what He has done!”

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God Sees You from Beginning to Eternity, January 31

God Sees You from Beginning to Eternity, January 31

”He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity into the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end” (Ecclesiastes 3:11 NIV).

God sees you from beginning to eternity. Scripture tells us that Solomon was the wisest man who ever lived! Honestly? Just the thought of being given the title of wisest man to ever live is too much for me to grasp. Solomon, when asked by the Lord what he desired, asked for wisdom instead of silver and gold or riches untold. Fortunately for us, Solomon was moved by the Spirit of God to share his wisdom in the book of Ecclesiastes.

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On Wings Like Eagles, January 30

On Wings Like Eagles, January 30

“Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles” (Isaiah 40:31 NIV).

Endless hospital visits for blood draws, scans, and appointments. Emotional ups and downs. Medications that cause debilitating fatigue. Facing your own mortality. As you deal with the disease, you may discover a weariness beyond anything you have ever experienced.

God’s chosen people, the Israelites, tried to stand up against the attacks of other nations, but their resistance proved futile. Powerful, overwhelming military powers conquered their country. Most survivors were forced to leave their homes and travel to live in far-off countries as exiles. Many lives were lost.

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At the Most Unlikely Moment, January 29

At the Most Unlikely Moment, January 29

“For when we were still without strength [helpless], in due time Christ died for the ungodly” (Romans 5:6 NKJV).

I just got off the phone with my friend Mike, whose wife is finishing the process of chemo and radiation treatment. He told me, “When a buddy of mine found out what we were facing, he warned me that ‘this is going to be hard.’” Mike said he nodded his head and thanked his friend for the information, but he had no idea what his friend was talking about. Later in the treatment process, Mike called his buddy back and asked what he had meant. He answered, “At times you might feel helpless and exhausted. It is the daily grind that can wear you down.”

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I Don’t Want to Go to a Cancer Group, but I Will, January 28

I Don’t Want to Go to a Cancer Group, but I Will, January 28

“Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me” (Matthew 25:40 NIV).

“Sweetheart, how about we sign up for this class at the Kettering Cancer Center called ‘Seeing God in Your Cancer Journey’? It’s a weekly class for ‘only’ eight weeks, and the description mentions some topics that might help us work through your new diagnosis.” My husband, Mark, then asked what day of the week the classes would be, and I told him … Thursdays. (I already knew that was the same night as his band practices. Those nights were good for his soul and helped him unwind from his stressful and sometimes grueling job as a UPS driver.)

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Prayer, January 27

Prayer, January 27

“Seek the LORD and His strength, seek His face continually” (1 Chronicles 16:11 KJV).

When we first met Michelle at Maple Tree Cancer Alliance, she was in the middle of a storm. Her husband had recently died. Soon after that, she was in a car accident that left her with several broken bones. No sooner had she healed from the accident than she noticed a lump on her breast. Within the span of six months, Michelle’s life had gone from happy and content to broken and alone. She was a shell of her former self.

As we were talking, Michelle confessed that she no longer prayed—not because she was necessarily angry with God, but because she just didn’t know what to say any more. She was just too … sad.

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A Potluck Dinner, January 26

A Potluck Dinner, January 26

“But here on this mountain, GOD-of-the-Angel-Armies will throw a feast for all the people of the world, a feast of the finest foods, a feast with vintage wines, a feast of seven courses, a feast lavish with gourmet desserts” (Isaiah 25:6 MSG).

For me, potlucks are complicated. I never know what to make. I guess that is why being invited to dinner is so much nicer than being invited to a potluck. And yet, the dinner invitation is barely out of my friend’s mouth before I yelp, “What can I bring?” Some friends let me bring a salad or a dessert, but then there’s the friend who says, “don’t bring a thing.” Part of me is thrilled to be treated with such hospitality, while another part of me is immediately feeling guilty that I’m going to show up without a dish.

Why is it so difficult for some of us to be treated as special, when we’ve nothing to contribute but ourselves? Even a cancer walk can feel like a time you need to “get it right.”

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God will Provide, January 25

God will Provide, January 25

“So Abraham called that place The Lord Will Provide. And to this day it is said, “On the mountain of the Lord it will be provided” (Genesis 22:14 NIV).

One of the most difficult of the Ten Commandments is number ten: “Thou shalt not covet.” I confess I am always lusting after what I don’t have. Right now, I am frantically searching the Internet for a better SUV. The one I own is perfectly fine. But I want a smoother ride. I covet a particular SUV that I think will satisfy my insatiable desire. What do you want that you don’t have? Maybe you want a different spouse, a better job, better hair, new golf clubs or better health.  

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God’s Purpose Prevails, January 24

God’s Purpose Prevails, January 24

“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails” (Proverbs 19:21 NIV).

Have you ever heard the Yiddish Proverb, “Man plans, and God laughs?” It took me a while to learn the message behind these words. We live in such a fast-paced world, and expectations are high. I have always been someone who is on the go from the time my feet hit the floor until I drop back into bed fast asleep. My daily “to do” list has always been extensive and at times impossible. I have found myself frustrated and disappointed when I could not complete those lists or when my plans did not go as expected or didn’t happen at all. Have you experienced these feelings?

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The Parable of a Good Patient, January 23

The Parable of a Good Patient, January 23

“But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where [the wounded, half-dead man] was. And when he saw him, he had compassion” (Luke 10:33 NKJV).

Jesus tells a story about a man traveling who gets mugged (see Luke 10:30‬-35). The thieves strip him of his clothes, beat him and leave him lying half dead on the side of the road. Two religious leaders come along the same road, see the man, and cross to other side to avoid him.

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Be a Caleb, January 22

Be a Caleb, January 22

“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you” (Deuteronomy 31:6 NIV).

When my wife, Sue, was first diagnosed with breast cancer, we did something surely no one else has ever done. We did a Google search for information about her particular type of cancer, seeking what would hopefully be a good prognosis.

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Knock, Knock. Who’s There?, January 21

Knock, Knock. Who’s There?, January 21

“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me” (Revelation 3:20 NIV).

As my pastoral visit approached the end, I invited my parishioner and his family to join hands as I offered a prayer. I closed my eyes and began to intercede. I gave thanks, made our requests, and invited His presence into the hospital room.

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Groanings, January 20

Groanings, January 20

“Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered” (Romans 8:26 NKJV).

An old high school friend stopped by the house after my older brother died. Thirty-five years later, I still remember his visit. He walked through the front door, hugged me, and simply groaned. Somehow, I understood the message of those guttural sounds. His sighs seemed to say, “I loved him, too.” I knew I was not alone in my grief.

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Time for Action!, January 19

Time for Action!, January 19

“You see that his faith and his actions were working together, and his faith was made complete by what he did” (James 2:22 NIV).

Albert Einstein is often credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”1 If we keep doing what we have always done, nothing will ever change!

No one knows this better than a patient at Maple Tree Cancer Alliance who I will call Julie. Last winter Julie was diagnosed with a very rare form of cancer and was not given a very good prognosis. At the time of her diagnosis, she was overweight, sedentary, and was not attending church on a regular basis. Her diagnosis was hard for her to deal with. She sank into a very deep depression and completely isolated herself from family and friends. She wanted to rid herself of the world—or at least rid the world of herself.

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Jesus Has Overcome the World, January 18

Jesus Has Overcome the World, January 18

“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33 NIV).

I was the youngest of three boys. It was wonderful having older brothers I could call upon for protection or advice. It was also a blessing to have a mother I could run to when the older brothers felt like taking out their frustrations on their youngest brother. Who can we turn to for security and protection in a world filled with tribulation? Our parents, siblings or friends will not always be present. The world is filled with temptations and pitfalls. The writer of John reminds us that Jesus has overcome the world to bring us peace. Jesus is our constant Friend whose presence brings peace in an anxious world.

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A Floridian in Chicago, January 17

A Floridian in Chicago, January 17

“When John heard in prison what the Messiah was doing, he sent a message by his disciples and asked Him, ‘Are You the One who is to come, or should we expect someone else?’” (Matthew 11:2-3 HCS)

After living all of my 28 years in Florida, I moved to Chicago. Chicago winters have these things I had only seen in movies: ice, snow, hail, and this stuff called sleet. Having moved in October, I was ready for spring by Thanksgiving. But spring would come in March, right? Wrong. It was still snowing on Mother’s Day. Every sun-deprived molecule in my body yelled out, “Really? REALLY? Is spring ever going to come?” This was certainly not what I had expected.

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